Receiving the news that your partner is pregnant can feel like being hit by a tidal wave. You might be swept away by feelings of responsibility, anxiety about the future, or concern for her. The most important thing to remember is that your partner is likely experiencing all this as well, so your biggest job is to be her steady shore in this overwhelming moment.
The Southern Ohio Pregnancy Center is here to provide free pregnancy services and education to women with unplanned pregnancies. Let us be a beacon of hope as you navigate this challenging situation. Reach out to us for an appointment.
Be Her Rock
Emotions are naturally running high. The biggest thing you can do is try to stay calm and collected so your partner can relax and feel safe venting her thoughts and concerns with you without judgment.
Listen actively to what she has to say, offering support and understanding. Let her know that you are in this together, ready to face whatever comes your way as a team. Your steady presence will help her navigate her own emotions, making it easier for both of you to process this life-changing news.
Remember, being her rock means being patient, empathetic, and fully present in the moment.
Get Informed About Your Options
There is much to consider with pregnancy, including your options: abortion, creating an adoption plan, or becoming a parent. Take some time to reflect on how each choice will impact your life and your partner’s.
Gathering as much information as possible before you talk can help your partner feel supported, as she may not have the time or could be distracted by all the changes happening to her.
This isn’t something you have to decide in one conversation. Rather, make a series of shorter discussions where you can get a feel for what’s best for both of you.
Let Us Help You
You and your partner don’t have to go through this alone. Get support at the Southern Ohio Pregnancy Center. We can help you review your options, get detailed information or education, and offer free pregnancy services.
Call us at (937) 393-2990 or text us at (937) 509-0108. You can also make an appointment online.
